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    Which Enneagrams are you most romantically attracted to?

    Which enneagram types have you been most attracted to through your life? If you're not sure, think of it this way -- which type would be your romantic partner if you were a fictional character? Or, what's your ideal mate? Which types do you picture yourself happiest with?

    You can choose multiple types, but I'd ask please not to choose too many --- go for 2 or 3 types. You can only vote once so vote thoughtfully!!!

    Feel free to elaborate on your choice in the comments.
    5
    1w9
    0%
    0
    1w2
    0%
    0
    2w1
    0%
    0
    2w3
    0%
    0
    3w2
    0%
    0
    3w4
    0%
    0
    4w3
    0%
    0
    4w5
    0%
    0
    5w4
    20.00%
    1
    5w6
    60.00%
    3
    6w5
    20.00%
    1
    6w7
    0%
    0
    7w6
    20.00%
    1
    7w8
    0%
    0
    8w7
    0%
    0
    8w9
    20.00%
    1
    9w8
    0%
    0
    9w1
    40.00%
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    #2
    Well, my ex is 9w8 5w4 2w3 which probably is the most "ideal" combination for me... though I wish I had more experience to draw from. Like it's one thing to speculate based on which characters I'm attracted to, but without actual experience, I can't for sure if something would work.

    Edit: Actually, the main reason it didn't work out was because I had issues being affectionate, so a type that would be more conducive to drawing out that side from me might be good... whatever that is. :P
    Although this other guy... I would say he seemed more 7ish, though I didn't get to know him that well. But he had a more "endearing" quality that made me feel more affectionate. On the other hand he was not very reliable, so I don't know if I could have handled that. x_x
    Last edited by [redacted]; 04-06-2020, 06:36 AM.

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      #3
      On the other hand I always imagine 3 to be sexy, but in reality it's often boring. So that's disappointing.

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        #4
        I mean on one hand I think any type has the potential to be both attractive and unattractive, but that's a boring answer so I tried to focus on experience. But speaking of fictional characters, I was looking at drawings of Kylo Ren and I have very little interest in Star Wars but in a way he is hot. 469 tritype I believe? But there is something off-putting with this as well. Like, in reality, I feel someone like that would be too similar to me and that creates like an ick-factor. Like having some similarity I think is good so you can actually connect and stuff, but there needs to be something different as well.
        (Think a guy I knew in real life was that type actually, and though we got along well we were never involved romantically... but that guy is dead now so of course a part of my brain gotta consider what-ifs. =P)

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